If I had a webcam, I know what question I would submit to YouTube for the CNN/YouTube GOP Debate
Notice the difference in how Mr. Stossel treats Nicole and her family and how he treats the pastors? Not exactly the model of journalistic objectivity. But that gets away from why I wanted to post the story.
I wish I could say that I'm surprised by Nicole's experiences, but if I did I would be lying through my teeth.
I lived in Oklahoma for seven years and two of my three best girlfriends grew up there, so I know that not everyone in that state is a small-minded hick. Still, having spent that much time in the land of Orel Roberts, I also know all too well that it is not a happy place for any atheist to be.
King Heathen has a nice response to the whole thing posted on YouTube.
Normally I wouldn't embed a random YouTube video, but this young man seems to have a pretty good head on his shoulders, and I think he makes some pretty good points, as an atheist living in the South, and I have to agree wholeheartedly with the depth of his disgust with the whole situation.
Setting aside for a moment the revulsion this story made me feel, it also stirred several memories and set me to looking back at my own experiences living in Oklahoma as an out-of-the-broomcloset Celtic Pagan. Not once in the seven years I lived there was I made to feel unwelcome because of my faith. Admittedly, most of my time was spent either in the company of IT guys or on the campus of a major University, but no matter where I was, whether I was inside or outside of that comfort zone, my faith - on those occasions when it was relevant enough to be discussed - was never treated as a negative.
After class one day, I got into a theological discussion with a fellow student, who also happened to be a Southern Baptist Youth Pastor. After about an hour of friendly questions and answers, he told me he wished his students thought about their beliefs as much as I'd clearly thought about mine. On another occasion, I ended up chatting with a repairman who had come out in the middle of the night to fix our electricity; he was a Jehovah's Witness, and we ended up having a bonding moment about the shared experience of always having to explain "what I really believe" as opposed to "what the media says I believe." Finally, during the year I spent working - in between University and law school - I got into a conversation with my assistant manager in which my religion came up. I commented on her reaction - a positive one - and she replied, "Well, honey, this is Oklahoma; we don't care so much what you believe as long as you believe something."
I don't know if her comment really is reflective of Oklahoma as a whole, but it did stick with me, and I've wondered about it many times since then.
Would the reception I received have been that different if I would have been an Atheist instead of a Celtic Pagan?
Is there something about Oklahoma history that embeds in its culture a demand that you acknowledge some higher power, even if it's multiple higher powers?
Or was my experience just a result of the fact that I was living in one of Oklahoma's few metropolitan centers? Would the people of Hardesty have responded to me and my family with the same hostility that they showed Nicole and her parents?
If I'm perfectly honest with myself, I have to admit that there are places in this country where people would look down their nose at me on account of my faith. I also have to acknowledge that if the Religious Right base in the GOP had its way, the percentage who would reject me and any other members of minority faiths would increase.
And that brings me to the question I would ask the GOP candidates, if I had a webcam:
Sirs, I am a Celtic Pagan, a member of a faith that is very much in the minority in this country. President George W. Bush once said that he did not believe that Wicca - another type of Paganism - was a real religion, his father once said that it was impossible to be an Atheist and a good citizen, and I have heard more members of the GOP than I can even begin to count referring to this as a Christian nation. So, I ask you all, what would you say to those patriotic citizens who are members of a minority religion or who have no faith at all? How are we to feel welcome in this country we love so dearly when we are accused by our leaders of not being proper Americans?
